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July is Disability Pride Month, But is 'Pride the Right Word?' My Perspective on Disability and Strength

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  "JULY IS DISABILITY PRIDE MONTH," the subject line boldly announced in my inbox today. Yes, it’s July. And yes, I do identify as a person with a disability. But honestly, “pride” isn’t the word I would instinctively use to describe my experience of living with a disability. To me, it feels more like being a contestant on a real-life, never-ending episode of American Ninja Warrior. Each day presents its own obstacle course, and anyone navigating life with a disability deserves recognition simply for making it through. Curious to better understand Disability Pride Month, I turned to Google—and found plenty. The flag, often seen with diagonal rainbow stripes across a black background, sometimes includes a wheelchair symbol. It’s clear this movement is real, with its own identity and symbolism. Wanting to make sense of the word “pride,” I looked it up in the dictionary. The first definition—“a feeling of deep pleasure or satisfaction derived from one’s own achievements”—didn’t ...

"You can never go home...." Bridge Story - Mother's Day, May, 2025

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  The phrase 'you can't go home again,' drawn from Thomas Wolfe’s timeless novel, captures the bittersweet truth that time changes all things – places, people, even our own hearts. The past, once left, becomes a country we can visit only in memory; each return is a mixture of comfort and loss, the familiar made strange by the years in between. Yet, yesterday, I found myself once again on the road that once led me to  The Farm , where I grew up, crossing Maeystown Creek. I paused in the cool, dappled shade of a tree near the creek, unwrapped my lunch, and let the quiet wrap around me like a long-forgotten embrace. The soft rustle of leaves, the gurgle of the creek, even the distant hum of insects – all felt like whispers of an earlier, younger time, a place where my roots first found their hold. Wandering down to the low-water bridge, I paused, marveling at the old structure. My father built it, with concrete and two large metal pipes, a practical creation that has withstood...

Visit with Austin Hill's Beautiful Family on May 22, 2025

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Jayden is looking at colored markers with his mom, Ciera Rose Ronin discovers the watering bowl. Austin is playing with Ronin. Jayden  

Suzy with Ronin

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  Ronin's firs selfie Ronin takes a selfie using 'portrait' mode. At dinner with Ronin Pan D'Olive 5/22/2025

Walt with Austin

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 Walt with Austin Hill at dinner at Pan D'Olive, May 22, 2025

Damage from the Tornado on Oleatha

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 Oleatha Street, photo May 5/22/2025

"Treat the earth well....."

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 Photo:  Missouri Botanical Garden, May 19, 2025.